Whenever we see something as difficult we tend to stay from that and get motivated and give excuses and tend to quit.IS that what you are made for? To quit? To loose?Ask yourself that why did you started and try to make most out of the opportunities.But please don't make JEE exam of your life.
Have you ever found it really hard to pick up a book and study?
You know you should study. You know that it’s important.
But you just can’t open up a chapter and read. Instead, you watch the patches on the ceiling or look outside the window, check WhatsApp messages and whatever else that comes to your mind.
And when you do open the book, you go through the chapter half-heartedly. Like a bonded labourer somehow trying to finish his job.
Why? Because you somehow know that you wouldn’t qualify. Because you lack the…motivation to study.
Maybe you took the JEE once. Or a mock test. And your scores came out to be very poor. Are you the only one who has to go through this?
NO!
Each one of us has at some point failed/performed below expectations in some exam.
Remember what you told yourself then?
“Okay, everybody is laughing at me. Making fun of me. I will show them. Next time I will clear JEE with a top 100 rank. That will shut their mouths.”
And you begin with full enthusiasm. Studying, solving problems, revising formulae…
But a month later…
You’re tired. Even picking up a book feels like a lot of work. Almost an impossible thing to actually open it and study. You try anyway.
Not because you want to, but because you have to.
2-3 questions later, you’re bored. And then we’re back to not studying.
You were motivated but you lost it somewhere…why?Three Important Questions in the Wrong Order – What, How & Why?
There are three questions you must answer when you’re doing anything.
Remember that when you were a kid, people would ask you,” What do you want to become?”
You would reply,”I want to become XYZ”.
Then, they would say,”Oh, why do you want to become that?” You would answer something funny to this question. Like I want to become a police inspector to put my big brother in jail, for example.
Rarely do they talk about or tell you how you’re going to achieve that.
The problem is we start following the same principle in our lives. Whenever we do something, we follow the What, How & Why pattern.
Let me give you an example. How many of these questions have you asked?
- What is the best coaching institute for JEE preparation?
- What is the cutoff for Computer Science?
- And a thousand more like this…
These questions occupy our minds day and night. But in reality, they are the least important.
You should ask these questions. But only after you’ve asked yourself: Why?
A lot of people will never get to the How part. For them, coaching is the answer for all their needs. They never think it through, and just go and take admission to any of the big-name institutes out there in Kota.
Even less number of people will think about the most important question of all. Why do I want to clear JEE?
Be honest with me. Have you asked this question yourself?
Even if you have, did you take enough time to write down your answers?
It is here, where the secret to staying motivated all the time lies.
You don’t lose motivation because of your poor marks in the tests!
The tests play a part, but a very small one. There is a larger, much more important reason.
Because you don’t spend the time to ask: Why?
You just start your preparation without thinking about it. Maybe you followed someone. Or maybe someone else told you to prepare for JEE.
But why? You don’t think about it yourself. So it seems great at first when things were easy, but just when things start to get a little challenging, you look for excuses. And you think about giving up.
Today we will change that together. You and I.
I will share with you a technique to motivate yourself from the inside. Without any external influence.
You will learn a system that you can use to always stay motivated, regardless of your goals.
I only require from you a promise – that you will follow the system in the best way you can.
The system I am talking about is based on three important questions…
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